A Different Wiring Structure with Tom Gautreaux

Tom Gautreaux is one of those what we call local legends that we organically find opportunity to speak with. These easygoing conversations focus around building an identity–a self–that finds success in the world, and how they have experienced building a life in ways that sometimes haven’t, but mostly have, flourished. Tom’s our next door neighbor. His father is the well-known novelist and short-story writer, Tim Gautreaux. Tom shows up in this episode with how he grew up and how that shaped him, and how a vocation found him that kept him sustained and excited for all these years. I find the conversation warmed up and we ended up landing on generational work style differences, social media, leadership, the art and challenge of giving effective feedback, and the issue of doing a hard thing every day.Like all of our guests for Season Five, this is an organic and unscripted conversation.Time Stamps:Not all lawyers will be happy being lawyers. 0:00Generational work style differences, social media leadership, art.How did you get started in law? 3:13The importance of being exposed to different management styles and personalities.Burnout and proving value.How did you become an addict to work hard? 7:43The myth of being a rock in an island.Mentor/coach/guiding light.How do you view success? 11:40Millennials burnout and digital natives. 17:15Differences between the younger generation and our generation. 21:18Employees view things differently than students.Employees are more attune to work-life balance.Finding what you love to do. 24:33How to be effective at giving feedback. 29:06The importance of being effective at giving feedback.How to become a very effective leader.Do one thing every day that scares you every day. 35:55Find out more about Big Self SchoolWe still offer our flagship burnout coaching package. We also offer packages for those seeking clarity and reconnecting to their life purpose–and we do this work with individuals and couples. Reach out to us if you’d like to book a discovery call and learn more about our coaching packages.Book a discovery call hereWant to learn more about the role stress plays in your life, and discover your blueprint for how to handle it based on your Enneagram type and subtype? Join us at the