Everyone Else Is...

Whether it's your child pulling the age old nag "everyone else is / has", or you get caught in the parental comparison that "everyone else is, so maybe we should" I'll help you navigate this minefield from both sides. Here are the highlights: (3:10) Understand that the request comes from wanting to fit in(6:40) Acknowledge what the request means to your child(8:36) Avoid lecturing!(10:50) Focus your response around ‘every family is different’(17:08) Consider an allowance(22:30) Draw yourself back to the uniqueness of your child(26:30) Give yourself 48 hours(26:50) Ask yourself lots of ‘why’ questions(28:50) Reconnect with your family values(29:30) Connect with your tribePrevious episode mentioned:Ep 55: 6 Essential Skills Your Children Need You to Teach Them
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