How To Be Mentally Strong After A Breakup

Today I’d like to talk about how to be mentally strong after a breakup. Arguably one of the most important things you are going to hear me talk about on this website. Perhaps the greatest irony of this all is that no one really wants to spend time thinking about it. Instead, what garners the most attention, the most clicks on YouTube are the shallow ideas revolving around getting quick ultimately meaningless results. Here are the three core methods for  how you actually stay mentally strong in the post breakup period, Adopting An I Choose Philosophy Lose The Guy To Get The Guy Learning To Fail Forwards Again, a lot to talk about here. What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Take the quiz Adopting An I Choose Philosophy When it comes to all aspects of life I have noticed that people tend to be more reactive than active. This in and of itself may not initially seem like that big of a deal but it can soon snowball into a situation where it is. Most people<br /> are reactive to the world. Things happen to them and they react. Yet, it’s this very same person that “reacts” that often feels like they have no control. Take your love life as an example. You’re here, reading this article, because of a reactive philosophy most likely. Though you probably don’t think of it that way. You fell for a guy, imagined that “he was the one” or at least harbored those hopes but he<br /> rejected you and you immediately react to this in the hopes to solve your problem. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy you’re here but until you understand that giving other people the ability to choose what you do and when you do it is a core root of your problem you probably can’t be helped. When you care what<br /> a man thinks you give them the power to control how you feel. When you care what your parents think you give them the ability to control how you feel. And yes, the same goes for friends. So, here’s how we’re going to fix this. From now on YOU choose who you date. Not a man. Not a parent. Not society. Not even me. YOU choose. Of course, you can nod your head in agreement to this concept but I’ve been doing this long enough to know that somewhere along the way something will happen and you’ll let other people choose your life for you. When this happens people often complain of circumstance. “This breakup happened because he said he doesn’t love me anymore.” “He said we can’t be together because the timing isn’t right.” Some women will blame themselves. “I’ll never succeed because I’m not worthy of love.” “Why does this always happen to me?” “Why don’t men love me? Why can’t I ever find the one?” Notice a common theme? Each one of these pretend scenarios revolve around you letting other people dictate ho