Weaponized Incompetence

In this episode, licensed, professional counselors Sharon and Kayla continue their discussion of the mental load by talking about weaponized incompetence. Weaponized incompetence occurs when someone attempts to not learn tasks, does them badly, or invalidates them to try and get out of doing them (whether intentionally or subconsciously). Like in an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond, Ray purposefully changes diapers badly so Deborah doesn’t ask him to do it again. For additional info, check out our blog post here, or follow us on Instagram @wholeselftherapists