30. Exploring Modern Relationships, Interdependence vs. Interdependence, and Parallel Play with Israa Nasir

I've been married for four years, and my husband and I have been dating for thirteen years. We practically grew up together, and our relationship has been through so many transformations. In this episode, I'm joined by one of my favorite digital creators, Israa Nasir, to discuss the relationship dynamics in millennial marriages. She is the licensed therapist and mental health educator behind the Instagram account @well.guide. Israa's content on mental health is truly inspiring. She brings a fresh perspective to relationships, marriage, and emotional growth by considering the cultural, societal, and economic factors that play a significant role in the discussion. Whether you're dating, single, married, or seeking validation and guidance to improve your relationship, this episode is for you!We dive into several aspects of modern relationships, including interdependence, independence, codependency, conflict patterns, setting boundaries, and the concept of "parallel play." Israa explores how millennials, particularly South Asian millennials, are redefining relationships by breaking away from traditional societal norms and creating their own dynamics and cultures within their partnerships.With extensive social media experience, Israa emphasizes that while social media can be informative, you should take everything on social media about relationships and mental health at face value. Use it as a point of reference, a moment of reflection, or an opener for a dialogue, not a judgment about your partner.Israa offers her wisdom and many practical tips for all types of relationships so you can be a healthy communicator and strengthen your connections with your loved ones! Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or on your favorite podcast platform.
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Topics Covered:Codependency vs. hyper-dependencyIndependence and interdependence in South Asian marriage Navigating differences in a relationship to meet each other’s needsLessons from How To Lose a Guy In 10 DaysWhat makes a relationship “toxic? Identifying typical conflict patterns and effective solutions Parallel play and how it relates to healthy relationship dynamics Technology and social media’s impact on relationshipsQuestions to ask someone when you want to get to know them on a deeper levelIsraa’s perspective on celebrity marriages <br/>
Resources mentioned Man's Search for Meaning