Are we too judgemental?

We are often quick to judge our peers, friends, celebs and everyone in between, but do we know why they make the choices and do the things they do? are we asking and listening and then forming a conclusion/opinion or are we making a judgement based on preconceive notions. Young female adults are often judge the harshest because of their decision to become a part of the porn industry. Should a decision that was made to get out of a bad situation define who we are as individuals.