Managing Your Divorce, Prenups, And New Relationships: Advice From Family Attorney Nancy Perpall

On this episode of The D Shift, Nancy Perpall, an experienced divorce attorney, shares her insights and advice on navigating divorce and starting anew. Nancy begins by emphasizing the importance of believing in themselves throughout the divorce process.One key recommendation Nancy provides is the importance of getting a prenup for peace of mind and to lower legal fees if there is a breakup in the future. While certain aspects like children can't be included in a prenup, Nancy underscores its significance in protecting one's assets.Drawing from her personal experiences of going through two divorces before her third marriage, Nancy talks about how she made a conscious effort to reflect on her own mistakes rather than focusing on what her ex-spouses did wrong. As a female lawyer primarily representing women, Nancy shares her unique perspective on divorce and how she encourages people to "get better, not bitter" through the divorce process.Throughout the episode, Nancy addresses common challenges faced during divorce, such as financial abuse and prolonged legal processes that can drain resources. We also discuss how sex and finance questions need to be a factor before any engagement and marriage conversation.Nancy concludes the episode by encouraging clients to view divorce as a new beginning and an opportunity to develop a relationship with themselves. She discusses the importance of self-insight and personal growth, even if someone is not ready for divorce. About the Guest:Nancy Perpall began her career as a critical care nurse entering law school in her early 30s. She practiced family law for over 32 years and has turned to writing about relationships to share what she learned about what makes them work and what makes them fail.She also knows why some people become "bitter" after a relationship fails – and why some people become "better." Her novel, Around Which All Things Bend, is about a man and a woman's intimate journey in searching for a life partner. Her upcoming book, The Malnourished Marriage: 5 Essential Emotional Nutrients for a Healthy Relationship, is a how-to book for those who want to know how to get the love and connection back they once felt with their partner. To connect with Nancy:Website: https://nancyperpallLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyperpallIG: https://instagram.com/nancyperpallauthor?igshid=YWVjMmZiZjg=https://www.amazon.com/Around-Which-All-Things-Bend/dp/1665726105/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2FKRVL1FWQOJW&keywords=around+which+all+things+bend&qid=1666956680&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjgyIiwicXNhIjoiMS4wNyIsInFzcCI6IjEuMzgifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=around+which+all+things+bend%2Caps%2C118&sr=8-1 About the Host:Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "Find Out Your #1 Priority to Cut Through the Fog of Divorce".