#1405 - Can You Be TOO Loyal?

In this episode, hosts Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros, dropped a bold truth bomb: unchecked loyalty, despite its virtues, can be a double-edged sword. They shed light on the 'obliger' tendency, as described by Gretchen Rubin in her book, The Four Tendencies, and its potential to snare us in a cycle of self-sacrifice. They expose the delicate dance between loyalty to others and self-fulfillment. They also venture further into self-alignment, exploring the potential pitfalls of pleasing others at the expense of personal aspirations. They dissect the tenacity it takes to balance nurturing relationships and staying fiercely committed to individual goals. <br/><br/>Links mentioned:<br/>Book a FREE Breakthrough Session with Alan: https://bit.ly/3Wr6clL <br/>Next Level Monthly Meetup:  https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/ <br/><br/>______________________ Website 💻  http://www.nextleveluniverse.com   The best way to track your habits is here! Download the app: Optimal - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/optimal/   _______________________Any of these communities or resources are FREE to join and consumeNext Level Nation - https://www.facebook.com/groups/459320958216700 Next Level 5 To Thrive (free course) - ​​https://bit.ly/3xffver     Next Level U Book Club - https://www.nextleveluniverse.....com/next-level-book-  Next Level Monthly Meetup :  https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/   _________________We love connecting with you guys! Reach out on LinkedIn, Instagram, or via email<br/><br/>Instagram 📷<br/>Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/<br/>Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/<br/><br/>LinkedIn ✍<br/>Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/<br/>Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/<br/><br/>Email 💬<br/>Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com<br/>Alan@nextleveluniverse.com__________________<br/>Show notes:<br/>[1:26] You can be too loyal<br/>[4:31] Alan recognizes that he was an obliger<br/>[6:19] Fear of success<br/>[15:11] Choose who or what you are loyal to<br/>[16:34] John talks about his phenomenal experience working with Kevin and the Next Level Podcast Solutions team<br/>[19:06] Loyal to the goal<br/>[25:06] Result of being loyal to one goal<br/>[32:06] Outro<br/><br/>