153 - Can We Talk Mindset? How to Be a Successful Mom, Wife, All the Things

Hey there momma!!  Can we get real and raw?? Being a parent is hard. Being a Mom is hard. If you want to add the word “successful” which we all want to strive for, that adds another layer of hardness. What does a successful mom even mean? Well, it’s different for each person right? Add on the other roles you carry… Wife, employee, daughter, friends, all the things together- How do we hold it all together and not lose our SH** Today we will share a few things that you can do to boost your mindset. First, I think we have to define what success looks like for you as an individual. We want to stop for a moment and ask you how much time and effort you spend on a weekly basis in your mindset? The very first part of this is self-awareness. If you are aware when your mindset is good or can be improved, this is truly the first step in improving it. There is one thing that is absolutely true, all the duties that you carry in life are going to have highs and lows. There are going to be struggles in life and challenging times ahead. When you have a good, positive, healthy mindset, it makes the struggles and challenges in life a little bit different. You can handle them generally with more ease and more positive outcomes. You can do this by getting up 20 minutes early and spending time pouring into starting your day in a positive way. Saying affirmations, spending time in God's word, doing a journal or simply listening to a positive YouTube or podcast. If you don't feel like the morning time is good, spend a few minutes at lunch or right before you head into work period if you drive to work, you can use your drive time to pour into your mindset. Doing this on a daily basis will only create a healthy habit for you that will last all day long and when you have those storms crashing in on your life. Creating boundaries in your life is something that will keep the stress levels at bay. When I say boundaries, I mean knowing where your priorities are for the time of your life that you are in. We all have different seasons where we are able to give more time to certain things, knowing what season you're in, and where you spend your time and energy, will really improve your mindset and the balance of managing all of your different roles in life. One of my favorite outlets is self development and finding a tribe of women who are working on becoming a better version of themselves. Join a book club, join a life group at your church, or lean into a group of friends or a team that you are a part of. If you have not found a group of people who you can lean into to help you grow your mindset and improve who you are in these roles each day, this is something that can really help you with your growth. Want a sample of Thrive- Email us at blessedmommabosses@gmail.com