Episode 36 - Men Are Quick To Do Evil Part 3

In today's episode, our eclectic hosts Abigail, Moroni, Abish, aaaAAAaaa, and special guest Kali will take you on a rollercoaster ride of emotions, from laughter to shock and deep reflection.<br/><br/>**Introductions and S’morched Earth Cocktail**<br/>In our lighthearted introductory segment, get to know the personalities behind the mics as we introduce ourselves with a splash of humor. Abigail, Moroni, Abish, aaaAAAaaa, and Kali share some age-defying banter and unveil a delicious cocktail creation, the "S’morched Earth." Tune in to discover the secret ingredients, as we share a toast and poke fun at our drinking choices. Plus, we touch on the Word of Wisdom, offering a taste of what's to come. Stick around as we tease an exciting continuation of Kali's compelling story.<br/><br/>**Kali Koger Continued: [00:07:26]**<br/>Prepare for an emotional rollercoaster as we delve into Kali's harrowing journey through an abusive marriage. In this segment, Kali bravely opens up about her husband's indifference towards her and their children, recounting instances of neglect in medical care, emotional support, and intimacy. She shares her heart-wrenching struggles with multiple pregnancies and miscarriages, highlighting the emotional toll it took. The conversation takes a darker turn as Kali discusses her experiences with her abusive partner, referred to humorously as "potty." Shocking incidents, potty's desire for more children, violent tendencies, and a chilling assault highlight the complexities of abusive relationships. We explore why victims often keep these stories hidden and leave you hanging with a dramatic police arrival.<br/><br/>Kali takes us through a series of phone calls with her abusive partner, who's been arrested for assaulting their son. The partner's manipulative behavior, requests to call various jail "friends," and controlling tactics are examined. The narrative unfolds as Kali's coping mechanism shifts to repeating numbers to appease her partner. As the calls progress, a pivotal moment arrives when the partner suggests that the kids can't stay at home any longer. This is a chilling realization that prompts the speaker to contemplate the end of the relationship. We delve into the dynamics of control and the challenges faced by victims in such situations.<br/><br/>**Abigail's Historic Exploration: The Utah War [01:14:50]**<br/>In a departure from personal narratives, Abigail guides you through a captivating journey into history, focusing on the Utah War. In this segment, we revisit the winter of 1857-1858, highlighting key moments in this tumultuous period. Abigail begins with a hint of dissatisfaction with their previous summary of the Utah War and briefly touches on the Mountain Meadows Massacre, an event fraught with Native American abuse and slaughter.<br/><br/>We then delve into the arrival of the U.S. Army in Utah and Captain Stewart Van Vliet's challenging mission ahead of the main troop force. Brigham Young's attempts to prevent war while preparing for potential conflict are explored, along with the Mormon militia's harassment of the army. The narrative takes an intriguing turn with the introduction of Thomas L. Kane, a non-Mormon mediator pivotal to the story.<br/><br/>Tensions remain high as both sides call for reinforcements during the harsh winter. Witness the Mormon settlers' mass migration south and their unique practice of paying tithing in commodities. The segment takes you through the aftermath of the Utah War, with settlers gradually returning and the U.S. Army settling in a remote location. Discover the unexpected outcomes of this historical chapter, including the creation and financial struggles of the Pony Express and its eventual bankruptcy. The segment also touches on the political consequences, with Republicans seizing control and the Democratic Party's internal split.