Erasing Family with Guest Director Ginger Gentile

Erasing Family. In this age of cancellation, it’s not so rare. In the divorce and child custody (family court) world, cancellation has been a “thing” for a long time. Cancellation of the child’s other parent and even extended family is common. In this episode, Bill and Megan are joined by Ginger Gentile, director of the Erasing Family documentary. Erasing Family follows young adults fighting to reunite with their broken families. Part emotional roller coaster, part investigative exposé, the film “follows the money” to expose why loving moms and dads are erased from their kid’s lives by divorce. Bill and Megan will talk with Ginger about the documentary and discuss: why kids are often unaware they are alienated from a parent what should a parent say and do when their child says they never want to see them again what to do when a child refuses all contact with a parent, if anything top mistakes a parent makes when reuniting with a parent how long it can take to reunite - whether it’s a process or can it be resolved in a day the patterns that all families who reunite follow biggest changes in alienation in the last decade self-care in alienation listener questions focused on: getting through to the other parent just how damaging their behavior is on the kids; and protecting them from other parents behavior without also engaging in alienation how to handle other family members who have been pulled into the conflict
Links & Other Notes GINGER GENTILE’S WEBSITE & DOCUMENTARYErasingFamily.Org BOOKS Don’t Alienate the Kids BIFF for Communication: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts PROGRAMS/COURSESNew Ways for Families for Parents & Children Our website at High Conflict Institute: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior. 00:00 - Welcome to It's All Your Fault 01:58 - Ginger Gentile 03:37 - Questions 06:27 - Erasing Family 13:05 - Feedback 16:17 - Alienated Children 17:42 - Parental Responses 19:21 - When Kids Refuse 21:28 - New Ways for Families 24:06 - Reunion Mistakes 30:56 - Dealing With the Other Parent 36:05 - Changes Over Time 41:24 - Communicating If There's No Contact 42:40 - Parental Self-Care 43:49 - Counteracting Alienation 45:58 - Counteracting Patterns 49:00 - Being Ready 52:03 - Target of Blame 55:05 - Reminders