Hear from the wife of someone who has SSA – Is there life after divorce?

Is same sex attraction real? Hear about it in real life  with “Sara” – A wife of someone who has SSACan the mother have custody of the boys when the father has a Mitzvah to teach his children Torah?<br/>Are you allowed to say Loshon Horah when asked Shidduch information about your ex- spouse?<br/>Are you allowed to say the divorce wasn’t messy?<br/>Can you hide your assets to give less alimony?<br/>If a spouse is violating the divorce agreement and Beis Din can’t enforce it, are you allowed to go to secular court?<br/>If one of the spouses goes off the Derech how should it be dealt with?<br/>How are the ex-spouses supposed to communicate with each other?<br/>If one of the spouses remarries, how do they walk down to the Chuppah?