You Want Me to Stimulate What?

Nope, children don't come with an Instruction Book, and in the pre-internet days we only had God, family, and Dr. Spoke to lend to what was to become.  Laura and I being a career military family, we were hard pressed to go at this alone, and boy did we learn a lesson.  Hell, I was a Chief Petty Officer in the US Navy, and I figured that some muscles were just natural.  Sorta' like breathing or blinking you eyes, them sorta' things just knew how to work.....well I was wrong.