Loving Children Who Have Experienced Trauma | Replay

What is trauma? This episode is sponsored by CTCMath.com. trau·ma<br /> ˈtroumə,ˈtrômə/<br /> noun 1.<br /> a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. What causes trauma in young children? Past or Present Abuse Stress in the home Divorce Death of Pet Death of Family Member/Friend Unhealthy environment Adding a new family member. Move Witnessing something horrible, scary, or stressful. This can be a real life event or witnessed via media. You don’t need to know what caused the trauma in order to help.<br /> Behavior is Communication<br /> GET CURIOUS…What is their behavior saying to you? Withdrawn Anxious Misbehavior Angry Fearful Powerless Exhausted THIS ISN’T ABOUT YOU If it is a big deal to them, it is a big deal. Try to stay unemotional during the most emotional times. Children from hard places need to know they are safe, loved and Accepted, no matter what. Essentials of TIC (Trauma Informed Classroom)<br /> Connect – Focus on Relationships<br /> Protect – Promote Safety and Trustworthiness<br /> Respect – Engage in Choice and Collaboration<br /> Redirect (Teach and Reinforce) – Encourage SkillBuilding and Competence<br /> Hummer, V., Crosland, K., Dollard, N., 2009 10 ways to help… 1. Have a Routine.<br /> 2. Choose Your Words Carefully.<br /> 3. Provide a space for one.<br /> 4. Give permission to feel.<br /> 5. Honor their feelings.<br /> 6. Be available.<br /> 7. Be flexible.<br /> 8. Educate others.<br /> 9. Don’t expect to have all the answers (Ask them).<br /> 10. Create opportunities in the classroom for the child to experience success. Make a plan… <br /> What do you need to be prepared? Who do you need to talk to? Any unresolved trauma in your own background? What needs to change in you OR your environment? More Episodes on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network The post Loving Children Who Have Experienced Trauma | Replay appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.