Is being rated for your looks during school days stopping you from celebrating other women today?

That secret feeling that bubbles up when we see other people people doing something really amazing. Where does that uncomfortable 'envy' come from and how can we actually have a different experience for ourselves?The conditioning of comparing ourselves to others runs deep for many women. It's imposed on us from boys in the playground to glossy magazines and its infiltrated the lens we have when we see others and experience the world. By constantly making things about us, are we making ourselves unhappy and missing out on celebrating other women?